Get Your Ex to Come Crawling Back

Could this ever really happen? It is not only possible but probable. There are mental judo techniques that when performed properly no ex can withstand. Are you sick of being the only one fighting for your relationship? You can stop the pain and get your ex to come crawling back.
Presently you may be saying to yourself, yeah right, they won’t even give me the time of day. I appreciate how you feel. Understand thousands of others have felt exactly the same way. However, when they found the system I am speaking of, they couldn’t believe their eyes. They were reuniting, and fast. Using specialized techniques, you can get your ex to come crawling back
It’s not too late, yet.
It can even be to your benefit if they have found someone else. After all, you want to win the war. It is OK to take a hit on a small battle. Rebound relationships just do not work out. Just continue on with your battle plan, and trust you will prove the rule.
Do not panic.
Begging, pleading, and attempted jealousy will only drive your ex farther away. Have you wondered why gold and diamonds are so expensive? They are perceived to be rare and hard to come by. Conversely, you can buy a ton of gravel for a few dollars. if you leave messages and text them multiple times a day, they know they can have you back. This only serves to drive them farther away.
They are thinking of you.
Humans have selective memories. If you remove the behavior they are upset about (hounding them or threatening them) the human brain will quickly eliminate them from the thought process, leaving only the pleasant memories. Prove me right. Think about a friend you had a tift with a few years back. The first things that come to mind are the fun you had together, not the fight. TRY as hard as you want, and you will only be able to remember small amounts of the fight.
People’s biggest fear
Humans are desperately afraid of being considered inconsistent by others, and even more by considering themselves inconsistent. People do whatever they have done in the past to be consistent. That is why people come out of rehab and start using drugs again. That is how they see THEMSELVES. It is a self fulfilling prophesy.
Your ex broke up with you because they either saw themselves as inconsistent staying with you, or they see you as being inconsistent. One of these two will emerge if you dig deep enough. All you have to do is show them it would be inconsistent to not be with you. This is both effective and slightly manipulative. Don’t worry, they will never know.
Here is the proof.
This story is paraphrased from Robert Chaldini’s book - Persuasion, The Art of Influence.
People went into a suburban neighborhood and asked 100 homeowners if they could put a large gaudy billboard in their yard that said “Keep California Beautiful”. 97 said no. They then asked 100 different homeowners if they would put a small sticker on their garage window that said “Keep California beautiful”. It was such a small request 97 said yes. Two weeks later the same 97 people who said yes to the small sticker were asked if they would allow them to put up the same unsightly gaudy billboard in their yard. Over 2 thirds said yes. It was consistent with what they had done in the past.

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